In Klahn v. Klahn (2025), the Nebraska Court of Appeals clarified when judges can modify parenting time and child support—and when they can’t. The case explains limits on redefining parenting plans, reducing daily phone calls, and choosing the correct child support worksheet.

Social media plays a bigger role in Nebraska divorce and custody cases than most people realize. Judges and attorneys regularly use posts, photos, messages, and even “private” content as evidence when evaluating credibility, co-parenting behavior, financial honesty, and the best interests of the child. A single screenshot can affect parenting time, support, or how the court views your judgment. This guide explains how your online activity is discovered, why deleting old posts can lead to legal trouble, and what you should—and shouldn’t—share while your case is active.

If every message from your co-parent creates stress, uncertainty, or fear, you’re not alone — and you’re not imagining it. Nebraska courts look beyond “who sent a mean text” and focus on patterns that affect a child’s stability and emotional safety. This post breaks down what coercive communication looks like, how it impacts kids, and when legal options become appropriate.

Feeling stuck living with your spouse during a divorce? You’re not alone. In Nebraska, it’s common for one spouse to refuse to move out or cooperate with selling the home, leaving both people living in tension and uncertainty. The good news is that you don’t have to wait until the divorce is finalized to fix the situation. Nebraska courts can issue Temporary Orders granting exclusive possession of the home, setting financial expectations, and protecting parenting time while the case moves forward. If the living situation has become unworkable, there are legal options to help you create space, stability, and a path forward — even when your spouse refuses to cooperate

Holiday travel can get complicated fast when you share custody. Nebraska’s Parenting Plans have specific rules about out-of-state trips, holiday schedules, and what kind of communication you actually owe the other parent. The biggest mistake I see is confusing notice with permission—most Nebraska plans require you to notify the other parent of travel, not ask for approval, as long as the trip happens during your time. This guide breaks down the notice vs. consent distinction, offers a copy-and-paste travel notice you can use right now, and explains when holiday travel can become a legal issue under the Nebraska Parenting Act.

Co-parenting communication doesn’t have to feel like walking into a text-message minefield. If you’re dealing with a high-conflict dynamic, the BIFF method—Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm—can help you stay calm, keep conversations focused on your child, and build a communication record that aligns with the Nebraska Parenting Act. It’s a simple, practical tool I teach to clients across Nebraska because it lowers stress and strengthens your position in any custody or modification case. Read the full guide to learn how BIFF works, why judges care about it, and how to use it in real-life conversations

Halloween is supposed to be fun—not a custody fight. Yet many Nebraska parenting plans skip it entirely, leaving parents unsure who gets trick-or-treating time. This post explains how to handle Halloween under Nebraska law, from dividing the evening to settling costume disputes and updating your parenting plan. Learn how to keep the focus on your child’s excitement—not on court orders.

When SNAP benefits stop, Nebraska families face more than empty cupboards — they face legal and economic fallout. A temporary lapse in food assistance can affect custody cases, guardianships, and even small-town businesses that depend on SNAP spending. This article explains how Nebraska law treats benefit disruptions, what courts consider under the “best interests of the child” standard, and how families can protect themselves when the safety net fails.

Divorce changes everything—including your estate plan. Many people don’t realize that while Nebraska law automatically removes an ex-spouse from a will, it doesn’t affect life insurance, 401(k)s, or other beneficiary designations. That means your ex could still inherit your assets if you don’t update your paperwork. This post explains how Nebraska law treats wills, trusts, and non-probate assets after divorce, why ERISA plans are the biggest “gotcha,” and the key steps to protect your legacy and avoid costly mistakes.

Divorce after retirement—often called gray divorce—is becoming more common among Nebraska couples in their 50s, 60s, and beyond. When a long marriage ends later in life, it raises complex questions about dividing retirement accounts, setting alimony, and updating estate plans. Learn how Nebraska courts handle these issues, what happens to pensions and health coverage, and why revising your will and beneficiaries is critical.

Celebrity prenups make headlines, but the real lessons apply at home. When Lori Loughlin and Mossimo Giannulli’s decades-old agreement resurfaced during their separation, it highlighted how easily outdated contracts can jeopardize financial security. Learn how Nebraska law handles prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, what makes them enforceable, and why updating yours could protect your estate and peace of mind.

A Nebraska prison romance that led to a felony conviction has raised a serious question: can misconduct or incarceration lead to termination of parental rights? This post explains how Nebraska law actually handles these cases—why incarceration alone isn’t enough, how courts apply the “best interests” standard, and what steps parents can take to protect their rights and stay connected with their children.

Nebraska’s new laws on gender-affirming care and public inclusion have raised urgent questions about LGBTQ+ youth safety. Learn how families can use Nebraska’s custody and guardianship laws to protect children’s emotional well-being and honor Matthew Shepard’s legacy through legal advocacy and action.

After Mr. Olympia 2025 reignited a new wave of youth bodybuilding, more Nebraska families are asking: how far is too far when it comes to supplements, training, and competition prep for minors? This post breaks down what state law says about parental consent, steroid use, and coaching contracts—and how guardianship and custody issues can arise when health and safety cross legal lines.

Taylor Swift’s new song “The Fate of Ophelia” imagines rescue where Shakespeare wrote tragedy. Nebraska guardianship law serves a similar purpose — protecting vulnerable loved ones from being left unprotected. Learn how the guardianship process works, what alternatives exist, and why early planning matters.

Establishing paternity in Nebraska protects children and parents alike, ensuring access to support, inheritance, and legal rights. Whether you are an unmarried parent, part of an immigrant family, or an LGBTQ+ couple, paternity provides the foundation of stability and recognition every family deserves.

n Nebraska family court, trying to “keep the peace” can backfire. People-pleasing parents often minimize serious issues, which can leave their children without the protection they need and undermine their own credibility in court. This post explains why people pleasing is a legal liability in custody and divorce cases, how it impacts children, and what parents can do instead—telling the truth, documenting evidence, setting boundaries, and working with an experienced family law attorney to keep the focus where it belongs: the child’s best interests.

Transition days are often the hardest part of co-parenting. Kids aren’t just moving backpacks—they’re moving between routines, emotions, and expectations. In my latest blog post, I share seven practical strategies Nebraska parents can use to make transitions calmer, reduce stress, and help children feel secure in both homes. From building in downtime to creating rituals of connection, these tips are designed to support your child’s best interests and give them the stability they need to thrive.

When Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce announced their engagement, fans saw romance—lawyers saw a billion-dollar financial puzzle. A prenup isn’t about planning for divorce; it’s about protecting assets, setting expectations, and avoiding future conflict. In Nebraska, prenuptial agreements are enforceable under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act if they’re voluntary, transparent, and fair when signed. Whether you’re a celebrity or a small business owner in Lincoln, a prenup can provide clarity, security, and peace of mind before marriage.

Talking about a prenuptial agreement with your fiancé can feel intimidating—but it doesn’t have to be. In Nebraska, prenups are valid and can be a powerful way to protect both partners, clarify finances, and reduce stress down the road. This guide walks you through eight practical tips for bringing up the conversation with empathy and respect, explains what Nebraska law requires under the Nebraska Uniform Premarital Agreement Act (NUPAA), and answers the most common questions couples ask.