Filing for divorce in January can quietly shape your child custody schedule for the entire year. In Nebraska, temporary custody orders are often set quickly and frequently based on written affidavits, not live testimony. That early schedule can become the foundation of your final parenting plan. This guide explains how January filings affect school routines, holidays, and parenting time—and how planning ahead can help parents keep control during one of the most important moments in a custody case.

Divorce is hard enough on adults. For kids, it can feel confusing, scary, and deeply personal, even when parents are doing their best. One of the most common questions I hear from parents in Lincoln and Lancaster County is, “What do I say to my child without making this worse?” In Nebraska, how you talk to your kids during a separation matters more than most parents realize. Courts focus on the “best interests of the child,” which includes emotional stability, safety, and whether parents are keeping children out of adult conflict. The right conversations can help your child feel secure and can also protect you legally if custody or parenting time becomes contested.

Can parenting apps really reduce conflict in Nebraska custody cases? Nebraska courts often encourage or order structured communication tools like OurFamilyWizard or AppClose when co-parenting conflict puts children in the middle. While no specific app is required by statute, judges have broad discretion under the Nebraska Parenting Act to require communication methods that serve a child’s best interests. This article explains how parenting apps work, why judges and guardians ad litem rely on them, and how the right tool can protect parents from “he said, she said” disputes while keeping the focus where it belongs—on the child.

When separated or divorced parents share custody, Nebraska law offers flexibility in how families manage communication and decision-making. Some parents thrive with cooperative co-parenting, while others need the structure of parallel parenting to reduce conflict. This post breaks down both approaches under Nebraska’s Parenting Act, explains how judges decide between them, and offers guidance on modifying your parenting plan as circumstances change—all with one goal in mind: protecting your child’s well-being and stability.

Transition days are often the hardest part of co-parenting. Kids aren’t just moving backpacks—they’re moving between routines, emotions, and expectations. In my latest blog post, I share seven practical strategies Nebraska parents can use to make transitions calmer, reduce stress, and help children feel secure in both homes. From building in downtime to creating rituals of connection, these tips are designed to support your child’s best interests and give them the stability they need to thrive.

Tyreek Hill’s high-profile divorce offers lessons for Nebraska families on temporary orders, custody, and financial planning. Learn how Nebraska courts handle spousal support, Parenting Plans, and the “best interests of the child” standard.