Do People Pleasers Get Eaten Alive in Nebraska Family Court?

n Nebraska family court, trying to “keep the peace” can backfire. People-pleasing parents often minimize serious issues, which can leave their children without the protection they need and undermine their own credibility in court. This post explains why people pleasing is a legal liability in custody and divorce cases, how it impacts children, and what parents can do instead—telling the truth, documenting evidence, setting boundaries, and working with an experienced family law attorney to keep the focus where it belongs: the child’s best interests.

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7 Practical Strategies for Nebraska Parents: Helping Kids Transition Between Homes After Divorce

Transition days are often the hardest part of co-parenting. Kids aren’t just moving backpacks—they’re moving between routines, emotions, and expectations. In my latest blog post, I share seven practical strategies Nebraska parents can use to make transitions calmer, reduce stress, and help children feel secure in both homes. From building in downtime to creating rituals of connection, these tips are designed to support your child’s best interests and give them the stability they need to thrive.

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Do You Really Need a Prenup? Lessons from Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce

When Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce announced their engagement, fans saw romance—lawyers saw a billion-dollar financial puzzle. A prenup isn’t about planning for divorce; it’s about protecting assets, setting expectations, and avoiding future conflict. In Nebraska, prenuptial agreements are enforceable under the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act if they’re voluntary, transparent, and fair when signed. Whether you’re a celebrity or a small business owner in Lincoln, a prenup can provide clarity, security, and peace of mind before marriage.

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How Do You Talk About a Prenuptial Agreement With Your Fiancé?

Talking about a prenuptial agreement with your fiancé can feel intimidating—but it doesn’t have to be. In Nebraska, prenups are valid and can be a powerful way to protect both partners, clarify finances, and reduce stress down the road. This guide walks you through eight practical tips for bringing up the conversation with empathy and respect, explains what Nebraska law requires under the Nebraska Uniform Premarital Agreement Act (NUPAA), and answers the most common questions couples ask.

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Navigating Family Court in Nebraska with Immigration Concerns: What Families Need to Know

When immigration issues collide with family court, Nebraska families often find themselves overwhelmed. This guide breaks down how custody, guardianship, and juvenile cases are affected by immigration status—and what families can do to protect children. Learn about Special Immigrant Juvenile Status (SIJS), the best interest of the child standard, and practical steps to take when court delays or enforcement actions create legal uncertainty.

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What Actually Hurts Kids During Divorce? (Hint: It’s Not the Divorce)

What actually hurts kids during divorce isn’t the divorce itself—it’s the conflict that surrounds it. This post explores what children really experience during a split, why emotional safety matters more than age, and how co-parenting with calm and consistency can protect their wellbeing. I

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Trauma-Informed Legal Practice in Nebraska: What It Means and Why It Matters

What does it mean to be a trauma-informed attorney in Nebraska? It’s about practicing law with clarity and compassion—recognizing how past experiences shape present needs, and building trust while delivering strong legal outcomes.

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What Kevin Costner’s Divorce Teaches Us About Prenups in Nebraska

Kevin Costner’s divorce and fight over prenup enforcement offers key lessons for Nebraska couples. In this post, I explain how Nebraska prenups work, why timing and transparency matter, and how to build a solid financial foundation—because in this case, if you build it right, it really can save you trouble later.

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Why LegalZoom Won’t Actually Save You Money in the Long Run

Thinking about using LegalZoom to save money? It might cost you far more in the long run. Here’s why DIY legal forms often fail under Nebraska law — and why working with an experienced attorney gives you real protection and peace of mind.

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LB 89 Is Law. My Firm Stands With Trans Nebraskans, Always.

During Pride Month, Nebraska passed LB 89, a law that bars transgender girls and women from participating in school sports that match their gender identity. As an LGBTQ+ owned law firm, we stand with trans Nebraskans and oppose this legislation. Here’s what LB 89 does—and why it matters.

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As a Gay Dad in Nebraska, I Know Why LGBTQ+ Estate Planning Really Matters

Estate planning in Nebraska isn’t just for the wealthy—it’s essential for LGBTQ+ individuals and families who want to make sure their partners, kids, and chosen family are protected. As a gay dad and attorney, I know firsthand how important it is to have a plan that actually reflects your life. This blog breaks down why LGBTQ estate planning matters, what can go wrong without it, and how you can take the first step—without the overwhelm.

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Summer Co-Parenting in Nebraska: Six Ways to Make It (Actually) Work

Summer break can throw even the most organized co-parenting plan off track. From shifting schedules to extra expenses and last-minute travel changes, it’s a season full of curveballs. This blog walks through six practical ways Nebraska co-parents can reduce stress, stay flexible, and keep their child’s wellbeing front and center—all without needing a courtroom to make it work.

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LGBTQ+ Families in Nebraska: What the Law Actually Does (and Doesn’t) Do for You

Being legally married doesn’t always mean being legally protected—especially for LGBTQ+ families in Nebraska. From second-parent adoptions to restrictions on gender-affirming care, the law hasn’t fully caught up with the needs of queer families. This blog breaks down where the gaps are, what’s at stake, and the legal steps you can take to protect yourself and the people you love.

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Prenups in Nebraska: What They Can (and Can’t) Do for You

Thinking about a prenup in Nebraska? You’re not alone—and it’s not just for the rich or famous. A well-drafted prenuptial agreement can clarify financial expectations, protect property, and help both partners feel more secure heading into marriage. But it’s important to know what a prenup can actually cover—and where Nebraska law draws the line.

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Postnuptial Agreements in Nebraska: When “I Do” Becomes “I Don’t”

When a marriage starts to unravel, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the emotions and unsure about your legal options. In Nebraska, postnuptial agreements aren’t enforceable—but that doesn’t mean you’re stuck. From marital settlement agreements to estate waivers, there are still clear ways to protect yourself and move forward. This post breaks down what you can do when “I do” turns into “I don’t”—without the legal jargon or judgment.

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What You Should Know About Guardianship in Nebraska

Guardianship in Nebraska means taking legal responsibility for another person’s wellbeing when they can’t make decisions for themselves. But it’s not automatic, and it doesn’t always include financial matters. Here’s what you need to know about when guardianship is needed, what it covers, and how to make sure you’re approaching it the right way.

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Conservatorship Isn’t Just a Britney Spears Story: Here’s What It Means in Nebraska

I’ve been a Britney Spears fan since high school. But her case wasn’t just celebrity drama. It brought real attention to how conservatorships can both protect and harm. In this post, I break down what a conservatorship of the person actually means in Nebraska, who it’s meant for, and why we should all care—whether we’re pop icons or not.

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Guardianships in Nebraska: What You Actually Need to Know

Thinking about guardianship in Nebraska? If you’re stepping up to care for a loved one, guardianship can feel confusing, emotional, and a little intimidating. I’m here to make it easier. I’ll walk you through every step, help you understand your options, and make sure the legal side of things actually supports what you want for the people you love.

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Estate Planning for Single Parents: Make the Call Before the Court Does

If you’re a single parent, having a will isn’t just smart—it’s essential. Without one, the court decides who raises your kids and manages your estate, and that decision might not reflect your wishes. In this post, I break down why estate planning matters NOW—not someday—and how a will and trust can protect the people who matter most.

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