How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce

Divorce is hard enough on adults. For kids, it can feel confusing, scary, and deeply personal, even when parents are doing their best. One of the most common questions I hear from parents in Lincoln and Lancaster County is, “What do I say to my child without making this worse?” In Nebraska, how you talk to your kids during a separation matters more than most parents realize. Courts focus on the “best interests of the child,” which includes emotional stability, safety, and whether parents are keeping children out of adult conflict. The right conversations can help your child feel secure and can also protect you legally if custody or parenting time becomes contested.

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What Legal Issues Should Nebraska Parents Consider Before Holiday Travel With Their Children?

Holiday travel can get complicated fast when you share custody. Nebraska’s Parenting Plans have specific rules about out-of-state trips, holiday schedules, and what kind of communication you actually owe the other parent. The biggest mistake I see is confusing notice with permission—most Nebraska plans require you to notify the other parent of travel, not ask for approval, as long as the trip happens during your time. This guide breaks down the notice vs. consent distinction, offers a copy-and-paste travel notice you can use right now, and explains when holiday travel can become a legal issue under the Nebraska Parenting Act.

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When Cake Is the Last Straw: Can Emotional Neglect Lead to Divorce in Nebraska?

When a woman ended her 25-year marriage over a slice of cheesecake, the story went viral—but the real issue wasn’t dessert. It was emotional neglect. In Nebraska, many long-term marriages don’t end with a single argument but with years of feeling unheard or unseen. This post explains how emotional neglect can signal that a marriage is irretrievably broken under Nebraska’s no-fault divorce law, and how it can affect alimony, custody, and financial decisions.

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What Legal Protections Exist During Domestic Violence Awareness Month in Nebraska?

Domestic violence is not just physical—it can include emotional abuse, financial control, and intimidation that leave survivors feeling trapped. In Nebraska, the law provides strong protections, from protection orders and emergency custody to guardianships that safeguard children and vulnerable adults. During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, our firm stands with survivors by offering compassionate legal guidance and connecting them with critical resources. If you or someone you love is facing abuse, you are not alone—and legal help is available.

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