How Can You Be the Parent You Want to Be During a Nebraska Divorce?

Divorce is never easy—especially when children are caught in the middle. In Nebraska, custody decisions hinge on the “best interests of the child,” but what does that really mean for parents? This post explores how to shift from reactive parenting to intentional parenting, how to support your child’s emotions without “fixing” them, and how Nebraska courts evaluate custody and parenting plans under § 42-364. If you’re facing divorce, learn how to protect your kids’ well-being while also strengthening your custody case.

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Should “Sunken Costs” Keep You in a Marriage That No Longer Serves You?

Many people stay in marriages because they feel they’ve invested too much time, money, or effort to leave. This is known as the “sunken cost fallacy,” and in Nebraska family law it often keeps people trapped in unhealthy relationships. This blog explains how Nebraska’s no-fault divorce laws, equitable division of the marital estate, child custody standards, and alimony rules apply when you’re considering separation. If you feel stuck, understanding your legal rights can help you make decisions based on your future—not just your past.

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7 Practical Strategies for Nebraska Parents: Helping Kids Transition Between Homes After Divorce

Transition days are often the hardest part of co-parenting. Kids aren’t just moving backpacks—they’re moving between routines, emotions, and expectations. In my latest blog post, I share seven practical strategies Nebraska parents can use to make transitions calmer, reduce stress, and help children feel secure in both homes. From building in downtime to creating rituals of connection, these tips are designed to support your child’s best interests and give them the stability they need to thrive.

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Divorce in Nebraska: What Harms Children More—The Split or the Conflict?

In Nebraska, it’s not the divorce itself that hurts children—it’s how parents handle it. This post explores how conflict impacts kids during and after separation, what Nebraska law says about parenting plans and co-parenting responsibilities, and how to protect your child’s emotional wellbeing throughout the process. Whether you’re considering divorce or already navigating custody, this guide is a must-read.

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