Is it normal to feel excited about your divorce? For a lot of people, yes — and quietly worrying that something is wrong with you for feeling lighter is one of the most common (and least talked about) parts of the process. In this post, a Nebraska family lawyer and Parenting Act mediator with thirteen years of practice walks through why relief and grief so often coexist, what Nebraska's no-fault dissolution framework actually requires, how to handle strong feelings during a pending case so they don't accidentally hurt your custody or finances, and what to do if your honest reaction is closer to grief than to celebration.

Many parents enter a custody case asking how to “win.” But in Nebraska family court, the better question is what kind of parenting arrangement actually protects the child. This article explains what Nebraska judges consider in custody cases, how the best-interests standard works, what parenting plans should include, when mediation matters, and why the strongest custody strategy is usually the one that keeps children out of adult conflict while still taking real safety concerns seriously.

Nebraska is one of the few states where the age of majority is 19, not 18. That one-year difference catches a lot of parents off guard, especially when an 18-year-old is working, driving, and acting like an adult, but the court order is still legally in place. In this post, I explain how Nebraska parenting plans and custody schedules typically continue through age 19, why child support usually does not end at graduation, and why termination is not always “automatic” in the state’s payment system unless the right paperwork is filed. I also cover the practical gray area created by FERPA and HIPAA at 18, and what parents can do to reduce conflict and handle the transition year the right way.

Halloween is supposed to be fun—not a custody fight. Yet many Nebraska parenting plans skip it entirely, leaving parents unsure who gets trick-or-treating time. This post explains how to handle Halloween under Nebraska law, from dividing the evening to settling costume disputes and updating your parenting plan. Learn how to keep the focus on your child’s excitement—not on court orders.

Tom Brady & Gisele Bündchen’s amicable divorce offers lessons for Nebraska families. Learn how negotiation, mediation, and thoughtful legal guidance can help you navigate divorce with less conflict, lower costs, and greater peace of mind.

Kim Kardashian & Kanye West’s custody battle shows how life changes can complicate parenting agreements. Here’s how Nebraska parents can modify custody or Parenting Plans when circumstances change—and why going through the court matters.

Kevin Costner’s divorce and fight over prenup enforcement offers key lessons for Nebraska couples. In this post, I explain how Nebraska prenups work, why timing and transparency matter, and how to build a solid financial foundation—because in this case, if you build it right, it really can save you trouble later.