What Tom Brady & Gisele’s Amicable Divorce Teaches Us About Divorce in Nebraska
Most headlines about celebrity divorces focus on chaos—public feuds, custody battles, or fights over millions in assets. That’s why the divorce between Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen stood out. No court drama. No drawn-out litigation. They reportedly resolved parenting time, child custody, and property division with dignity and mutual respect.
Sure, most Nebraskans aren’t dividing real estate portfolios or massive brand deals—but the core idea still holds true: a well-handled divorce doesn’t have to destroy your family, finances, or emotional wellbeing.
If you’re facing divorce in Nebraska, this post walks you through how the legal process works—and how, with the right approach, it can be more manageable than you think.
How Divorce Works in Nebraska
All divorces in Nebraska—with or without children—are filed in District Court, and the legal end to a marriage comes through a court-issued Decree of Dissolution. But that doesn’t mean every divorce ends in a trial.
Most Nebraska divorces are resolved outside the courtroom
Rather than relying on a judge to make personal decisions about your family or finances, many people reach resolution through:
Negotiation between spouses and attorneys
Mediation (required in most custody cases under Nebraska law)
Voluntary settlement conferences
Collaborative divorce, where both parties commit to out-of-court resolution
Filing agreed-upon Parenting Plans and property settlements for court approval
Why Mediation Matters in Nebraska Custody Cases
Under Nebraska Revised Statute § 43-2938, mediation is required in most parenting and custody disputes unless the court finds good cause to waive it (for example, in cases involving domestic violence).
Mediation creates space for solutions that work for your family, especially when children are involved. Instead of fighting in court, you and your co-parent have the chance to create a customized Parenting Plan that reflects your child’s actual needs and your real-life schedules.
The Benefits of Resolving Divorce Without Litigation
Not every divorce can or should be conflict-free. But when both spouses are willing to come to the table, resolving things outside of court offers some real advantages:
Emotional stability: Minimizes stress on you and your children
Cost savings: Avoids drawn-out litigation and attorney fees
More control: You shape the agreement, not a judge unfamiliar with your life
Faster resolution: Negotiated settlements usually move more quickly
Even in high-conflict situations, reaching agreement on some issues—like dividing personal property or setting parenting schedules—can reduce the number of issues that go before a judge.
When Going to Court Is Necessary
Of course, some divorces can’t be resolved outside of court. You may need litigation if:
Your spouse refuses to negotiate
There are safety concerns (including domestic violence)
One party is hiding or mismanaging assets
Custody arrangements are strongly disputed
In those situations, going to court isn’t a failure—it’s a necessary tool to protect yourself and your children. A good attorney can help you navigate the process clearly and confidently, whether you’re heading to mediation or preparing for trial.
What We Can Learn from the Tom Brady & Gisele Divorce
The takeaway isn’t that divorce is ever easy. It’s that—with the right mindset and legal support—it doesn’t have to be destructive. Their divorce highlights the value of privacy, respect, and focusing on the long-term wellbeing of the kids.
Here in Nebraska, those same goals are achievable—whether you’re divorcing with a full estate or simply trying to split parenting time and a shared car loan.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
How long does it take to get divorced in Nebraska?
The minimum waiting period is 60 days after service of process (when the other party is formally notified). If both parties agree, the process can move quickly. If contested, it can take several months or longer.
Do I have to go to court for my divorce in Nebraska?
Not always. Many divorces are resolved through negotiation or mediation without a trial. If you reach a full agreement, your attorney can submit the necessary paperwork to the court for approval.
What is collaborative divorce?
Collaborative divorce is a structured, non-adversarial process where both spouses—and their attorneys—agree to work out all terms of the divorce without going to court. It often includes other professionals, like financial experts or child specialists, to support a cooperative resolution.
Is mediation required in Nebraska divorces?
Yes, mediation is required in most cases involving custody or parenting plans (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 43-2938), unless waived by the court for good cause. Mediation helps parents create customized solutions that keep children’s needs front and center.
Do I need a lawyer for divorce in Nebraska?
It’s not legally required, but having an experienced divorce attorney ensures your rights are protected, your paperwork is complete, and your agreements are enforceable. If children or significant assets are involved, legal guidance is especially important.
You Don’t Need a Celebrity Divorce to Divorce Well
Divorce is hard. But it doesn’t have to be a war.
If you’re preparing for divorce—or already in the middle of it—and want a strategy that’s smart, calm, and legally sound, I’m here to help. I’ll work with you to keep things focused on what matters most: protecting your rights, your children, and your future.
Reach out to schedule a consultation: 402-259-0059 or zach@zandersonlaw.com.