What is the “ultimate goal” in a Nebraska high-conflict divorce, and why does it matter?

In a high-conflict divorce, it’s easy to spend months reacting to every hostile email, social media post, and manufactured “emergency.” The problem is that reaction-mode is expensive, exhausting, and it often creates the exact record you don’t want a Nebraska judge or Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to read. This post explains how to define your “ultimate goal” (your Summit) and use it as a practical filter for communication, legal strategy, mediation, and custody decisions under Nebraska’s Parenting Act and best-interests standard.