Divorce is hard enough on adults. For kids, it can feel confusing, scary, and deeply personal, even when parents are doing their best. One of the most common questions I hear from parents in Lincoln and Lancaster County is, “What do I say to my child without making this worse?” In Nebraska, how you talk to your kids during a separation matters more than most parents realize. Courts focus on the “best interests of the child,” which includes emotional stability, safety, and whether parents are keeping children out of adult conflict. The right conversations can help your child feel secure and can also protect you legally if custody or parenting time becomes contested.

Think you need an “aggressive” divorce attorney in Nebraska? Think again. In this post, we break down why aggression in court often backfires—and what you really need is someone who’s strategic, principled, and focused on protecting your future, not just picking fights.

Thinking about divorce in Nebraska but feeling overwhelmed by legal jargon and emotional chaos? This practical guide breaks down what you actually need to know—from parenting plans and alimony to dividing assets fairly and navigating the process without going to war. Written by a Nebraska divorce attorney who gets both the legal and personal sides of it, this post offers real, human advice for protecting your future (and your sanity).

Co-parenting after divorce isn’t just about sharing time—it’s about protecting your peace while showing up for your kid. As a Nebraska custody lawyer (and a co-parent myself), I break down what actually helps when communication is tense, transitions are rocky, or your parenting plan just isn’t working anymore. From parallel parenting to shared calendars, here’s a no-fluff guide to making it work—even when it’s hard.