A dementia diagnosis is never easy—but it’s not the end of the conversation. In fact, it’s the moment to start asking the right questions and making clear, compassionate decisions. The earlier you plan, the more options you have. From legal documents to care teams and everything in between, this post breaks down how to take action now so you’re not scrambling later.

Marriage doesn’t automatically give you the legal authority to act on your spouse’s behalf. If your partner becomes incapacitated and you don’t have a power of attorney in place, you may be blocked from accessing accounts, managing bills, or even talking to their insurance provider. Love and commitment matter—but in the eyes of the law, it’s all about agency. And that has to be granted, not assumed.

When a loved one can no longer make personal or financial decisions on their own, guardianship or conservatorship may be necessary. In this post, I break down what each role means, how it works in Nebraska, and what to expect—without the legal jargon or overwhelm.

I’ve been a Britney Spears fan since high school. But her case wasn’t just celebrity drama. It brought real attention to how conservatorships can both protect and harm. In this post, I break down what a conservatorship of the person actually means in Nebraska, who it’s meant for, and why we should all care—whether we’re pop icons or not.