When Dementia Is Diagnosed: Planning Ahead with Compassion and Clarity
A dementia diagnosis can feel like a tidal wave. It brings confusion, grief, and a whole lot of uncertainty. But even in the middle of that emotional fog, there’s an opening—one that gives you the chance to step in, make a plan, and support your loved one with dignity and direction.
This isn’t about rushing decisions. It’s about keeping as many doors open as possible, while you still can.
Why Early Planning After a Dementia Diagnosis Matters
Timing makes all the difference. A diagnosis in the early stages of dementia gives individuals the chance to speak for themselves—while they still have legal capacity. That means they can help shape their care, assign decision-makers, and protect their rights through proper legal planning.
According to the Alzheimer’s Association, early diagnosis allows individuals to participate in decisions about health care, financial planning, and end-of-life preferences. That includes signing essential documents like:
Medical power of attorney
Financial power of attorney
Advance health care directives
Estate planning documents (like wills and trusts)
Once someone loses legal capacity, those options are no longer available without going to court. Early action preserves autonomy and prevents expensive, drawn-out guardianship proceedings later.
Building a Dementia Care Team That Supports Everyone
You don’t have to figure this out alone. And honestly? You shouldn’t.
A strong care team can make a life-changing difference—for both the person living with dementia and those supporting them. Your team might include:
Medical Providers
Neurologists, primary care physicians, and memory specialists can help manage symptoms, prescribe treatments, and monitor health over time.
Legal Advisors
An estate planning attorney can walk you through setting up legal protections like power of attorney, advance directives, and (if needed) guardianship petitions.
Care Managers and Social Workers
These professionals can coordinate services, connect families to resources, and help you navigate the day-to-day logistics of care.
Don’t Forget the Caregiver’s Wellbeing
It’s easy to center everything around the person with dementia—but the caregiver matters, too. Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean you’re neglecting your loved one. It means you’re building a support system that can last.
That might mean:
Joining a local or online caregiver support group
Scheduling regular respite care
Meeting with a therapist or counselor
Letting others step in to help—even when it’s hard to ask
This is a long road. You need rest, space, and outlets to process what you’re going through. Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s how you stay steady when things get hard.
Know the Early Signs of Dementia
Many families delay action because they’re not sure what’s happening—or they chalk things up to normal aging. But the earlier you notice changes, the more options you have.
Some of the early warning signs of dementia include:
Memory loss that disrupts daily life
Difficulty with problem-solving or following plans
Confusion about time or place
Trouble finding words or following conversations
Mood or personality changes
If you or someone you love is showing signs like these, don’t wait. Talk to a healthcare provider. Getting clarity early gives you the best shot at planning ahead.
You’re Not Alone—Let’s Talk About Your Legal Options
Facing dementia is never easy. But there are ways to make it easier—legally, practically, and emotionally. If you’ve received a diagnosis or are caring for someone who has, it’s time to make sure your legal ducks are in a row.
I’m here to walk you through that. Whether it’s powers of attorney, guardianship, or just making sense of what comes next, I’ll meet you where you are—with clarity, compassion, and a plan.
Call 402-259-0059 or email zach@zandersonlaw.com to get started.