Not every “high-conflict” custody case is truly mutual. In Nebraska, some cases that look like two parents who just can’t get along are actually driven by coercive control: a pattern of intimidation, manipulation, rule-bending, or using the court process to maintain power. That distinction matters because “neutral” solutions like more shared decision-making or more frequent exchanges can unintentionally increase risk and instability for kids when one parent is using control tactics. This guide explains the difference in plain English, connects it to the Nebraska Parenting Act, and offers practical, court-usable ways to spot patterns and focus on child-centered impacts.

If you’re trying to divorce a narcissistic or toxic spouse in Nebraska, the goal isn’t to “win.” It’s to protect your kids, your finances, and your peace while staying credible in front of the court. Nebraska is a no-fault state, so labels matter less than patterns you can prove. This guide breaks down what judges actually look for in high-conflict cases, how the 60-day waiting period works after service, and the practical tools that help you regain control, like temporary orders, clear parenting plan boundaries, and court-friendly documentation.