Cremation might seem like the simpler choice—but there’s still a lot to consider. From legal consent to family dynamics to what actually happens after the ashes are returned, this isn’t something you want to leave to chance. If you want your wishes honored (and to avoid a family feud in a funeral home parking lot), it starts with clear planning, real conversations, and putting it all in writing.

End-of-life planning isn’t fun, flashy, or something most of us want to think about—but it’s one of the most loving and responsible things you can do. This post breaks down what matters (and what doesn’t), how to make decisions that reflect your values, and why leaving your loved ones with clarity is the ultimate act of care.