When you’re separating or divorcing, shared accounts stop being a convenience and start becoming a legal risk. Password changes can get framed as retaliation. Draining a joint account can turn into a dissipation fight. Deleting old texts or cloud files can look like evidence tampering. In Nebraska, the safest approach is a staged, judge-friendly plan: inventory everything, secure the accounts that are clearly personal (especially your primary email), preserve records before changing access, and handle joint financial and household accounts transparently, often through counsel or a written agreement. This guide walks through how to protect your privacy and stability without creating the appearance that you’re hiding assets or trying to control the other spouse.

Not every custody dispute or family conflict qualifies as a legal emergency. In Nebraska, judges reserve ex parte and emergency orders for situations involving immediate, irreparable harm supported by sworn evidence. This guide explains how Nebraska courts actually evaluate emergency motions, why affidavits often matter more than courtroom testimony, and what parents should file instead when a situation is serious but not truly emergent. Written from the perspective of a Lincoln family-law attorney who regularly practices in Lancaster County, this article helps you protect both your child and your credibility with the court.