Using Wicked as a lens, this article explores how divorce in Nebraska is less about villains and more about choices. It explains no-fault divorce, Parenting Plans, and the “best interests of the child” standard, while helping readers understand how to rewrite their lives after a marriage ends.

Divorce is hard enough on adults. For kids, it can feel confusing, scary, and deeply personal, even when parents are doing their best. One of the most common questions I hear from parents in Lincoln and Lancaster County is, “What do I say to my child without making this worse?” In Nebraska, how you talk to your kids during a separation matters more than most parents realize. Courts focus on the “best interests of the child,” which includes emotional stability, safety, and whether parents are keeping children out of adult conflict. The right conversations can help your child feel secure and can also protect you legally if custody or parenting time becomes contested.

Why do so many Nebraska divorces get filed in January—and why does timing matter? After the holidays, divorce filings surge, and in Nebraska that timing can affect far more than emotions. Holiday debt, year-end bonuses, tax filing status, and the court’s discretion over when assets are valued can all shape who pays what. This article explains how Nebraska courts treat post-holiday spending, when debt may count as dissipation, and why filing sooner rather than later can protect you from being stuck with financial decisions you didn’t make.

Think you need an “aggressive” divorce attorney in Nebraska? Think again. In this post, we break down why aggression in court often backfires—and what you really need is someone who’s strategic, principled, and focused on protecting your future, not just picking fights.